Hey, freak, happy holidays! I heard you're looking for something hot. Lucky for you, these types of gifts are my specialty. I also believe some of the best kinky gifts come from the imagination, so do something fun with your sweetheart (or playmate) that really gets to the heart of your dynamic. Some of these items are definitely intended for play, while others are just fun erotica-related items. Either way, everything's hot! If you're looking for some leather goods, check out my 2023 Harness Guide. Have fun playing, babe!"
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Porn Subscription
Like most things I write about, they are extremely centered on my own personal preferences. I love porn, obviously. Watching porn with your partner can be so much fun and totally erotic. It can be a really great way to explore new kinks or fetishes and talk about them in a nonjudgmental way. It also helps bring some inspiration to the bedroom. I personally LOVE Mondo Feriche; it’s beautifully staged (which, unfortunately for me, I do need in order to get off), and everyone in it has great chemistry. It’s sure to get you hot and bothered.
Literally anything from Kolby Brianne
Kolby Brianne is one of my favorite leather makers! All of the pieces feel so luxe and are crafted with such care. I really appreciate all the different colorway options that Kolby offers—truthfully, they are colors I don’t see often enough in leather gear. The Louise Harness is particularly stunning. However, if you're short on time, I recommend purchasing ready-to-ship items, including the Valentine Keychain and my personal favorite, the Switch Coin.
Fragrance Date
Okay, yes, I wrote about this in my vanilla gift guide, but I want to mention it again because I do think it could make for quite an erotic evening. Just imagine being comfortable at home, really getting to smell each other. Start by talking about the types of scents you love. Then go through some initial tests; I recommend spraying the first rounds on paper, just in case there’s a whiff of something that isn’t ideal. After narrowing down your picks, take turns spraying the testers on erogenous zones like the neck or the wrists. Get close and have a little fun afterward.
Kinky Bag Charm
This is my absolute favorite bag charm ever, and it’s from Zana Bayne. It tends to be a conversation piece for anyone who sees it, but I love attention, so it works out. I also love that you can customize these with initials; putting both your initials would make for a sweet gesture. This is an especially great gift for a fashionable Mommy.
Custom Chainstich Hanky
If it isn’t clear by now I’m a massive fan of anything customized, I think it just makes things feel so much more special. A customized hanky makes for a perfect and playful gift, it’s also great for literally any freak in your life. Show how well you know their deepest desires by getting them something that corresponds to whatever they like to flag.
L’hulie Jasmin Body Oil from Channel
This is absolutely absurd, but so am I, so that’s why this is on the list. It's my absolute favorite body oil for when I want to splurge. It smells heavenly, perfect for a goddess. I also find it to be quite moisturizing. It’s rather minimalist, but luxe packaging looks great on any vanity. Take turns oiling each other up, or not, do whatever your dynamic calls for.
Books
Araki. Tokyo Lucky Hole Hardcover Photo Book by Taschen
Graphic Thrills 2: American XXX Movie Posters
How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex: An Unexpected History
The Art of Vampirell
Play Toys
Bender by Unbound Babes
Femme Funn Booster Bullet
Le Wand Baton
Le Wand Petite
Uberlube
Vintage Erotica
1930 Happy Tears - A Classic of Female Discipline
1980 Playboy Playmate Calendar
Anatomy of Sadism by Phillip Bortell
Pam Anderson Playboy Vintage Collector Cards
Vintage Erotica Vampyres A Tribute To The Ultimate In Erotic Horror Cinema
