Little freaks, it’s the holidays, the time where your a real giver, granted you should always be somewhat of a giver. This year I’ve put together a nost NSFW list of all my favorite gifts to give lovers, situationships, maybe a friend, and of course yourself! Enjoy, and happy holidays babe!
*= Anna’s top picks
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Freaks From Years Past
I love vintage erotica; I really appreciate the creativity and sometimes the campiness of it all. Why not consider vintage books, calendars, trinkets (like this one from a peep show booth), or even magazines? I think a magazine from the year and month your recipient was born always makes for a special gift—like this May 1993 Playboy, capturing all the luxe and sensual indulgences of a Taurus.
Something Personalized
Listen, I love something personalized—it really shows you put in the effort. A lot of personalized things go beyond just being an item; they reflect a whole dynamic. Even something as simple as a hairbrush can be used during scenes or playtime. Just be creative and thoughtful. My personal fav? The custom Guerlain lipstick, duh. You can customize the cap, the engraving on the mirror, and choose your lipstick finish and shade!
Playtime
Sometimes, there’s no time for nuance—you just want toys that buzz, suck, or... whatever else you’re fantasizing about. Here are a few picks I think could create a special moment or add something extra to a scene.
Leathers for lovers
I suppose we needed something predictable, didn’t we? Tighten up the reins and dive into your freak headspace with some of my favorite harnesses and leather goods. For even more options, don’t miss my harness guide—and don’t wait too long. Many custom brands have cutoff dates for orders.
One last thing: when it comes to play, quality matters. Invest in pieces from a professional. Stop fucking around with fast fashion junk—you’re going to hurt yourself, and not in the way you want.
Body, Body, Body
Taking care of the body is just as important, whether it’s prepping for play or indulging in some aftercare. Maybe that means adding a luxe oil to keep skin soft or a touch of fragrance to set the mood. Either way, let it be a way to elevate the moment.
Shiny Pretty Things
Adding this to the list… because, yes, I’m dropping hints. Erotic—or vaguely erotic and abstract—jewelry is always fun. But let’s be real: the ultimate, most freaky, amazing, lovely gift you can get for a lover? Diamonds.
Quality Time
Nothing says love like quality time. Some of my favorite experiences to share with someone I love—romantically or platonically—include afternoon tea, visiting art museums, perfume shopping, jewelry shopping (see above), or taking a creative class like printmaking or calligraphy.
Set The Mood
From candles to erotic artwork, there are endless ways to make a space feel more sensual. Try adding lush textures like velvet throws, soft lighting with dimmable lamps, or even a playlist you’ve curated with love to set the mood.
Elevated Loungewear
After all the pomp and circumstance of life and love, all I want to do is relax. And what better way to do that than in some cozy, elevated loungewear? I love these pieces because they make the mundane just a bit more fun—and honestly, who doesn’t deserve a little luxury in their downtime? Oh, could you tell I’m a Taurus?
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